The Nano Wall Paradox
By: T. D. Palmer
A Short Story of Mistaken Belief and Reality
The Nano Wall
I was watching a movie the other day, the name of the movie is not important or the actors in it. But more importantly was this wall. You could see through it and move through it, but with a touch of a button, this wall would become a solid object, where nothing could pass through it, except sound.
If passing through the wall and a button was pushed accidentally, you would became part of the wall, thus you are now a solid object inside the wall. Once the wall became a liquid again, you could not survive the transformation, you would remain a solid object and dead. If parts of your body were hanging outside of the wall when it became a solid, those body parts would just fall off as live body parts. Obviously getting trapped in this wall would not be good, but on either side of the wall would have no negative effect on you or anyone else.
So we are going to look at this wall as part of the man and woman paradox and the perceived understanding of man and woman, but only from the stand point that this wall is always in place in the relationship. But, who controls it, and how is it used in the day to day operations of relationships will be critical in our understanding of the Nano Wall Paradox.
Today, this doesn’t really mean between just a man and a woman, but your life partner, which ever partnership has been formed. We are going to spend time looking at this wall, looking through it from both sides and in the wall, to find those issues that most effect relationships and who has been using this wall as a way to control or influence the other partner.
If passing through the wall and a button was pushed accidentally, you would became part of the wall, thus you are now a solid object inside the wall. Once the wall became a liquid again, you could not survive the transformation, you would remain a solid object and dead. If parts of your body were hanging outside of the wall when it became a solid, those body parts would just fall off as live body parts. Obviously getting trapped in this wall would not be good, but on either side of the wall would have no negative effect on you or anyone else.
So we are going to look at this wall as part of the man and woman paradox and the perceived understanding of man and woman, but only from the stand point that this wall is always in place in the relationship. But, who controls it, and how is it used in the day to day operations of relationships will be critical in our understanding of the Nano Wall Paradox.
Today, this doesn’t really mean between just a man and a woman, but your life partner, which ever partnership has been formed. We are going to spend time looking at this wall, looking through it from both sides and in the wall, to find those issues that most effect relationships and who has been using this wall as a way to control or influence the other partner.
The Man/Woman Connection
An Evolutionary Process
This question has been asked for thousands of years. Is it as the bible states, first Adam and then Eve. Is it a transformation at some point through evolution, did aliens come and drop off their criminals like we did with Australia, or is it something else. Obviously through an evolutionary process, men and women have become who they are and this evolutionary process has created huge differences between them.
There are physiological differences, women and their need to communicate, the need to relate everything with some form of emotion, and the strong desire to nest or hide in shelter. Men, find very little use in communication, do not consider emotion or showing emotion as strong, they only need shelter for sleep, protection for the woman and their offspring. Its interesting that young females role play being married and having children. Where young males role play at fighting wars and rescuing people, or hero type activities.
In very early times of man and women, while living and surviving in caves, the almost earliest of known male, female relations, the female stayed in the cave, while the male stayed outside, gathering foods, and protecting the entrance, only entering for nourishment, sleep and mating. Interesting that this same process continues to this day hundreds of thousands of years latter, with virtually no change except that the woman now ventures out of the cave unprotected.
An issue has come with the woman leaving the cave to venture outside the “Nano Wall”. Out side the wall is where she gathers foods, trinkets and artifacts to decorate the home with, while gone she leaves the protection of the home and their offspring to the male. The male finds it difficult to relate to this, he is normally outside and this completely baffles and disrupts his daily life. His sole existence is now being questioned and in jeopardy, evolutionary changes are taking place with the female but the male feels left behind and useless. In her absence the male doesn't know what to do, so he sits and waits for her return.
The male has played a big part in his own demise, by killing off the wild beast, and creating a protective barrier throughout his territory, the female is no longer afraid of venturing out. Once the female was unafraid to venture, her communication abilities with other females help form communities where others could be utilized to care for offspring. This is even evident amongst wild animals, where sisters, grandparents and so on are used as protectors, educators and care givers, while the female roams to territory. By providing and giving the female the security to venture out of the home, her only need from the male was again in jeopardy.
It's becoming very clear to the male that he is becoming almost unneeded except for limited recreational activities and procreation. During the hundreds of thousands of years of evolutionary progress, the once order in the relationship has completely changed and it's evidence is ever so obvious. Even a short 100 years ago, this paradox was not so evident. Not to long ago only the male left the home and went to hunt or work, leaving the woman to kept the home clean, prepare food and take care of the children. Throughout the home would be evidence of the males accomplishments and these things were nicely displayed for all those entering the home that the male who lived there was accomplished, brave and a hero.
More evolutionary change is obvious as you enter the home of the female who is free to roam the territory. On the outside of the Nano Wall you find, dirt, grass, plants and trees, maintained usually by the male. On the inside of the wall is the home which by most measures is no place for man anymore, except maybe a single location with which he can sit and not be bothered. But with only one location within the home to sit, where he is not overwhelmed by the females collection of trinkets and artifacts, there should be at least one thing of interest to him, basically something that would fit the males desire to battle and win wars or fit the hero profile with which he grew up desiring to be. Today that one thing is a TV, placed in a specific location, so as not to interfere with the placement and visibility of the females collections, but precisely placed in front of a coach or the males favorite chair and place there by the female.
Even though the female placed these items in their locations, she complains of the males lack of motivation to leave this location. During her nesting cycles and the rearrangement of her collections she has left these two artifacts remaining in their same basic location. Her thoughtful reasoning for their location has somewhat backfired and a dilemma has arose, because this was not her desired outcome. But realizing she had provided him with no alternative locations to rest and relax she was going to have make some changes while the male was out of the home. Her desire to control every aspect of the males life within her domain along with the locations of all her collections is another of her evolutionary qualities.
There are physiological differences, women and their need to communicate, the need to relate everything with some form of emotion, and the strong desire to nest or hide in shelter. Men, find very little use in communication, do not consider emotion or showing emotion as strong, they only need shelter for sleep, protection for the woman and their offspring. Its interesting that young females role play being married and having children. Where young males role play at fighting wars and rescuing people, or hero type activities.
In very early times of man and women, while living and surviving in caves, the almost earliest of known male, female relations, the female stayed in the cave, while the male stayed outside, gathering foods, and protecting the entrance, only entering for nourishment, sleep and mating. Interesting that this same process continues to this day hundreds of thousands of years latter, with virtually no change except that the woman now ventures out of the cave unprotected.
An issue has come with the woman leaving the cave to venture outside the “Nano Wall”. Out side the wall is where she gathers foods, trinkets and artifacts to decorate the home with, while gone she leaves the protection of the home and their offspring to the male. The male finds it difficult to relate to this, he is normally outside and this completely baffles and disrupts his daily life. His sole existence is now being questioned and in jeopardy, evolutionary changes are taking place with the female but the male feels left behind and useless. In her absence the male doesn't know what to do, so he sits and waits for her return.
The male has played a big part in his own demise, by killing off the wild beast, and creating a protective barrier throughout his territory, the female is no longer afraid of venturing out. Once the female was unafraid to venture, her communication abilities with other females help form communities where others could be utilized to care for offspring. This is even evident amongst wild animals, where sisters, grandparents and so on are used as protectors, educators and care givers, while the female roams to territory. By providing and giving the female the security to venture out of the home, her only need from the male was again in jeopardy.
It's becoming very clear to the male that he is becoming almost unneeded except for limited recreational activities and procreation. During the hundreds of thousands of years of evolutionary progress, the once order in the relationship has completely changed and it's evidence is ever so obvious. Even a short 100 years ago, this paradox was not so evident. Not to long ago only the male left the home and went to hunt or work, leaving the woman to kept the home clean, prepare food and take care of the children. Throughout the home would be evidence of the males accomplishments and these things were nicely displayed for all those entering the home that the male who lived there was accomplished, brave and a hero.
More evolutionary change is obvious as you enter the home of the female who is free to roam the territory. On the outside of the Nano Wall you find, dirt, grass, plants and trees, maintained usually by the male. On the inside of the wall is the home which by most measures is no place for man anymore, except maybe a single location with which he can sit and not be bothered. But with only one location within the home to sit, where he is not overwhelmed by the females collection of trinkets and artifacts, there should be at least one thing of interest to him, basically something that would fit the males desire to battle and win wars or fit the hero profile with which he grew up desiring to be. Today that one thing is a TV, placed in a specific location, so as not to interfere with the placement and visibility of the females collections, but precisely placed in front of a coach or the males favorite chair and place there by the female.
Even though the female placed these items in their locations, she complains of the males lack of motivation to leave this location. During her nesting cycles and the rearrangement of her collections she has left these two artifacts remaining in their same basic location. Her thoughtful reasoning for their location has somewhat backfired and a dilemma has arose, because this was not her desired outcome. But realizing she had provided him with no alternative locations to rest and relax she was going to have make some changes while the male was out of the home. Her desire to control every aspect of the males life within her domain along with the locations of all her collections is another of her evolutionary qualities.
Effect of the Nano Wall
The Nano Wall is now firmly in place and the evolutionary transformations have occurred to the males dismay, his thousands of years evolution has left him outside the wall, although this was his original desired location, leaving the home to the female and his children. He did not envision by eliminating all dangers from outside the wall would lead to the female leaving the home and gathering on her own or in groups of other females and bringing back collections of her efforts. He was originally the hunter gatherer on his own, his accomplishments and fearlessness made him the king of his domain.
He is dismayed and confused like being stuck in the wall, frozen in his footsteps not being able to move in either direction, the female has taken over his domain, his accomplishment are no longer visible from the outside or the inside, he has dirt, grass, scrubs outside and a chair facing a TV inside. He has lost all sense of direction and desire to provide beyond what the female can provide for herself. He is left with little to do other then provide a false sense of security while inside and bring home the needed supplies to maintain the outside. This evolutionary transformation of the female is extraordinary, the wall has no effect on her ability to transition from inside to outside, she is no longer stuck in the wall or on the inside of it and is free to roam as she feels.
Allowing this transformation is the mistake of the male, his lack of understanding in the female and her desire to be able to move freely was unexpected, he thought his efforts was all she needed and he was mistaken.
The Nano Wall is a figment of his imagination, his efforts gave the female to ability to become free and to roam as she pleases, this is not a frozen wall it's an open door allowing both the positive connections of both of them to move freely.
The Nano Wall is a barrier to happiness, it is easily turned off, the only barrier is the one we place on ourselves and our thoughts. If we chose to push the button and freeze the wall and lock ourselves within it, more then likely living parts of us will fall off because you can never remove all of yourself from inside or outside of the wall.
He is dismayed and confused like being stuck in the wall, frozen in his footsteps not being able to move in either direction, the female has taken over his domain, his accomplishment are no longer visible from the outside or the inside, he has dirt, grass, scrubs outside and a chair facing a TV inside. He has lost all sense of direction and desire to provide beyond what the female can provide for herself. He is left with little to do other then provide a false sense of security while inside and bring home the needed supplies to maintain the outside. This evolutionary transformation of the female is extraordinary, the wall has no effect on her ability to transition from inside to outside, she is no longer stuck in the wall or on the inside of it and is free to roam as she feels.
Allowing this transformation is the mistake of the male, his lack of understanding in the female and her desire to be able to move freely was unexpected, he thought his efforts was all she needed and he was mistaken.
The Nano Wall is a figment of his imagination, his efforts gave the female to ability to become free and to roam as she pleases, this is not a frozen wall it's an open door allowing both the positive connections of both of them to move freely.
The Nano Wall is a barrier to happiness, it is easily turned off, the only barrier is the one we place on ourselves and our thoughts. If we chose to push the button and freeze the wall and lock ourselves within it, more then likely living parts of us will fall off because you can never remove all of yourself from inside or outside of the wall.
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